i dont even sleep anymore i just die for a couple hours each day

 



 



hllucinate:

so is anyone secretly in love with me yet

 



 



 



 



 



 



I had a nice, good talk with my mom and she made me realize how toxic the relationship I just got out of was. It was emotional abuse.
Now I’m laying here wondering what I ever did to deserve all the bullshit that’s ever happened in my life and why this always has to happen to me.

 



"Before you know it it’s 3 am and you’re 80 years old and you can’t remember what it was like to have 20 year old thoughts or a 10 year old heart."

— This is the scariest fucking text post I’ve ever read (via fuckinq)

 



pruderanch:

200% sure that all of my friend have secret meetings where they just talk about how annoying I am

 



meajoraswrath:

xdominoe:

queenofthesouthernisles:

I just LOVE the animation here. The part with just their hands looks real. And I love the way Gothel’s fingers go from motherly gentle touch to creepy and evil. Beautiful

(via)

Tangled actually did a better job capturing an emotionally abusive relationship than most other things I’ve seen. And I don’t just mean when Gothel kidnapped her and lied to her about who she was. It was everything. She kept Rapunzel with her by cutting people out of her life and destroying her self-esteem. She puts her down and doesn’t allow her to feel confident at all. Recall when Rapunzel states she thinks Flynn likes her, Gothel blows her off with, “But just look at you. You think he’s impressed?” She also constantly makes Rapunzel feel responsible for everything that goes wrong. When they get in the argument in the beginning, Gothel victimizes herself and does her best to make Rapunzel feel guilty for asking her for a simple favor. It’s so textbook. And immediately after anything, she treats Rapunzel by promising her favourite soup and reminding her, “I love you most” to reel her back into that false sense of security.

And back to the animation of how she didn’t notice the maternal and loving hand was actually a malicious claw until she realised she was in an abusive relationship. Basically, Tangled is a really important movie, and the fact Gothel is so familiar to those of us who have experienced abuse is good because children are going to watch this and look for Gothels in their own lives.

 



 



hatfullofwhy:

For Lent I’m just giving up in general 

 



"And if you’re still breathing, you’re the lucky ones. ‘Cause most of us are heaving through corrupted lungs. Setting fire to our insides for fun collecting names of the lovers that went wrong."

— Youth (via standbys)

 



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